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Wednesday, February 8, 2017
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If trump succeeds in his promise to make abortions illegal, there will in fact be more abortions. The people that want to get rid of it do not want to look at the bigger picture. That there are not simple answers.
Of course, there is the argument of wrong is wrong. I wish abortion was not a reality. It is though. In the same way, Christians believed the Bible, but killed native Americans for their land and hung black men for being uppity. God-fearing men drag homosexuals to their deaths. Jesus was born in a time of a lot of wars. How hard to he rail against it? Need I find Bible verses stating good times to kill people and we do not follow them?
Make it illegal and then what? Arrest any doctor that performs it? Our prosecuting attorneys and court system are already overworked. Will it be able to file charges on the doctors. Many many people will still want abortions. Will these communities go after them? No. But they will not need to.
What will the prochoice people do with all their time and money. Probably fight to get abortions legal again. However, they will also set up a system to help out women. Money to help them go out of country to where abortions are legal.
I believe that a whole economy will be set up. American doctors will go to Mexico to get rich. Women will take abortion vacations. Go down to a warm destination.
Of course, that is for the women in well-to-do households. Poor women will have to go back to coat hangers. Just as bad will be the black market. Abortions will be the new marijuana. Illegal, but common place.
Setting aside the argument that abortions are just the beginning of controlling women’s bodies (which we shouldn’t, because people do want to do that), women will have less control. Young females, especially may decide just not to have sex. Some will then abstain and that is good. Many, however, will not prepare themselves for sex, but then they will get into a situation where they need contraceptives.
They won’t have them. Sometimes a baby will happen. Sometimes an abortion will happen.
Those that do get pregnant will then try to hide their pregnancy for as long as possible. Avoiding prenatal care while they figure out what to do or hope for a miscarriage. And what of miscarrgaiges. Will a hearing have to be held to determine if a woman had a miscarriage or an abortion. Will she be found guilty and face jailtime? There has to be a deterrent, right?
Will there need to be a hearing for a woman claiming rape? Won’t a woman have to go to court to prove that she did not deserve the kid inside of her. If the answer is yes, then what a terrible thing. If the answer is no, a doctor can just sign off and say he performed an abortion because the woman was raped. There’s the loophole to keep it legal. Then all those young women that are not on contraception and get pregnant have a way to get an abortion.
This is a stretch, but what if people stopped fighting Roe V Wade? Pro Choice people are passionate about women. I believe they would turn their focus to helping women and abortions are traumatic. Prolife people could spend their money on helping them as well. Fund adoptions instead of church picnics.Prochoice candidates would not give speeches about it. The abortion message would not be so prevalent. Without pressure from both sides, I think most young women would choose adoption.
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Conservatives think they want to get rid of social programs. Remember, we’ve had an absence of programs a lot longer than we have had them.
Dog eat dog didn’t work. That is why we developed them.
It seems like democrats want to gain power by giving. It seems like conservatives want to gain power by taking. Both are wrong beliefs (except for extremists and racists). Most people want a moderate reasonable approach. We’ll get neither while we let pundits and social media sway our beliefs and values.
You are a self-made success. Yo work hard and smart and earned every dollar you got. Yet part of the reason that you were able to is because we have a safe stable society (relative speaking)
If you did not have taxes, and we did not have social safetfy nets, what do you think would happen. Yes some people would get jobs May would not. Are country would be unsafe. Think of your business. Is there any of your businesses in the bad parts of the city?
Enough people would be forced to turn to crime. Without support, less children would get out of bad situations and we would become a more unsafe place.
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There are two schools of thought when it comes to the poor and needy. Provide assistance and take care of people or tough love- let them suffer so that they grow into a person that does not need help I do not believe either works. As a principal I believe people that suffer but grow are in the end, happier. However, we want what works best, do we not.
It does not work. Conservatives see all we do and think that we give to much to the poor. The important view here, though is how the people needing assistance see it. I don’t believe they see it as a big gift. I don’t think other people in the same position would either. For example, an African American on welfare see what? They see the racism in the police force and in other places. They see that they are kept down. No matter what color a poor person is, they will feel kept down and persecuted. Anyone in that situation would. Whether or not it a fact, it is human nature.
It does not matter how you view it
However, the truth vs. perception argument is not what I want to address. I just believe that they think they are already in a tough love environment. Without the love.
On the other hand, we have had welfare programs since Roosevelt. They have not cured the problems with poverty. I think this is because poverty is just so complicated.
So what to do?
I relate this to my working with special education students. Years ago, I dealt with kids in a strict way. We had rules and they needed to be followed and there was consequences. We are the adult so we will win.
Over the years, this has fallen to the wayside. The pendulum has swung as we say in education. I have a much more positive environment with less consequences. I see students succeed with this. I saw them improve with the tough love. In fact the kids often were thankful that someone was willing to stand up to them and say, enough. I care enough to give consequences.
However, The strict way did not lead to an intrinsic change. I think the resentment came out in other ways. And for some children, it did not work
The encouraging way has about the same success. However, it works longer term. INstead of weakening problems, it increases strength. It is certainly easier on everyone. It models how to get along and exist with less strife
Perhaps the success rate is the same. However, as a nation, how do we want to be? We want to nurture. Even those saying tough love, would change their attitude if they had to see people suffer when the could stop it.